Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Christmas and Taiwan lesson

We are back home after a very busy Christmas. Elliana and Andy stayed healthy for the first time! Well, I think Andy still has an ear infection, but that is normal for him. Here are a two picture:
This is my sister and me with a few of our nieces and nephew:

Grandpa Bill with is grandsons:

Last night we had dinner with some good friends from bible study. Melvin's family is from Taiwan so his mother showed us how to cook some yummy food and shared about the culture. We made egg drop soup, pot-stickers, dumplings, and green onion and oil pancakes. we did not actually do all the cooking, we got a little carried away in her stories and forgot to cook. But we loved it all. We had a great time and learned a lot too. We can not wait to do it again!

Tuesday, December 22, 2009


I love to be with family. I know that some family decide not to travel once they have kids so that way the kids get to spend Christmas Eve in their own bed and wake up Christmas day in their own home. Well, I love to see our families so we most likely always travel during the holidays. Despite the high stress of dividing time equally and trying to see everyone, I look forward to the parties and festivities.

The kids make the 4 hour drive pretty good and love to see their grandmas and papas. Elliana talks about it for the entire week and tries to pack repeatedly. This year I was able to hold off on her packing and then I forgot to pack more than one pjs. She usually only packs pajamas so she was greatly disappointed at first, but of course Grandmas was prepared and had extra for her. She is yet to take them off. She even wore them the Great-Grandma's birthday. Andy has loves to play with Papa and have him cuddle with him.

Merry Christmas to you and your family.

Sunday, December 13, 2009


My parents divorced when I was very young. I have no memory of living with my birthfather. God, in His great lovingkindness, provided a godly man for my mom to marry. On June 13, 2987, Bill and my mom married. We, my full sisters and I, have always called Bill, Bill. There were several reasons for this, we still saw my dad occasionally, that is how we were introduced, and other simple things like that. But Bill is who raised me and taught me to be who I am today. He walked me down the aisle, as he did with all four of his married daughters. Bill was never given the opportunity to adopt us officially, but I see him as my dad and love him so much. Thank you, Bill, for all you do for me.

For those interested here is a run down on siblings:
Kelly- step (Bill)-five girls, one adopted from Zambia two years ago.
Tina- step (Bill)-four girls, one boy
Shannon- full-one girl, two boys
Amber- full
Erica- half (dad)
Steven- half (dad)
Sam- Step (dad)
Garrett- step (dad)

Since this computer is not that old, I do not have a good picture of everyone, I will take one over Christmas:)

Saturday, December 5, 2009


Does anyone know what we are allowed and not allowed to say while blogging? I have wondered why some can post pictures of their babies and other have said they can not. I realize that some depends on the country, but I have seen both with Taiwan.
During our Adoption group's Christmas party someone mentioned that certain countries are very strick that nothing be published about the adoption until it is finalized or the country will close the adoption down and they will have to start over.

Tuesday, December 1, 2009


There are so many agencies out there, how does one pick? Well, here is how we picked ACGI. When we first started looking, we were thinking our child was in China. We had attended a meeting with All God's Children, which we loved the meeting and the information was very helpful. Well, after a few weeks of looking at China, we decided Taiwan was a better fit. At the meeting, we were told there was a pilot program for Taiwan but it would not be open to us for a while. I found three agencies that work in Taiwan, currently. One was not accepting anyone new and the other two were just not helpful to us. I would ask questions and they either would never call back or acted like I was bothering them, very rude like. Since we would have to find someone else to do the homestudy, we contacted ACGI again to see if they could work with one of the agencies. With that, God opened up the door to be part of the pilot program with ACGI. I believe God was at work here, because it does not seem other people had the issues I had with the other agencies.